15 Things People Pretend to Enjoy Daily
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We are always just trying to fit in, and meeting societal expectations are often a big deal. It’s not unusual to see folks putting on a happy face for things they might secretly find not-so-fun. From following the crowd to keeping up with what’s cool, many of us end up pretending to like things to avoid standing out.
Networking Events

These events promise professional connections, but let’s be real, they can feel pretty awkward. Chatting with strangers and remembering names? It’s not always enjoyable, but the desire to look well-connected pushes many to pretend. One person remembers having to go to Friday “happy hours” with her entire company and counting down the minutes until she could go home.
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Kale Smoothies
Yes, they’re healthy, but not everyone’s taste buds are fans. Drinking kale smoothies might seem trendy, but sometimes, people hide their cringes behind the facade of health-consciousness. Kale isn’t for everyone. Just get your fruits and veggies somewhere else during the day!
High-End Art Exhibitions
Abstract art isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, and pretending to get it can be exhausting. Yet, the allure of appearing cultured and sophisticated leads people to nod along, even when they’re not really sure what they’re looking at.
Extreme Spicy Food Challenges
Eating super spicy foods might seem like a daredevil move, but for many, it’s just uncomfortable. The battle with the heat is often masked with a brave smile to fit in with the thrill-seekers. One group of friends does a spicy food challenge every year. One participant hates it but doesn’t want to look like a “wimp” in front of his friends.
Musicals and Operas
Not everyone enjoys elaborate musicals or high-pitched operas, but there’s a fear of seeming out of touch. So, people often put on an act, applauding enthusiastically to fit in with the artistic crowd.
Long Commutes
Spending hours in traffic or on public transport isn’t exactly a joyride. Yet, the need to stay composed and not complain leads many to mask their annoyance with a composed demeanor. One person who commutes over an hour says she actually enjoys the drive since it gives her some silent time away from her kids. But she admits it’s not for everyone, and driving home on a Friday is always the worst.
Small Talk
Engaging in chit-chat might not be everyone’s idea of fun, but it’s a social norm. People often pretend to enjoy these light conversations to build connections even when they’d rather not.
Self-Help Books
Sure, self-help books promise growth, but not everyone finds them riveting. Still, the act of reading them is often a show of self-improvement, even if the words don’t resonate. Self-help book sales have risen by almost 11% in recent years.
Crowded Parties
For introverts, crowded parties can be overwhelming. But instead of hiding away, they often put on a smile and join in, even if they’d rather be somewhere quieter. Many of us are not in college anymore, and standing around shoulder to shoulder around a drink or food table isn’t fun.
Excessive Social Media Usage
Scrolling through endless social media feeds might not be all that fulfilling, but the pressure to stay in the loop makes people do it anyway. Behind the screen, they mask any digital fatigue. One person admits to taking a break from social media because it was no longer fun. Everyone is fake, and no one is showing their true life, they said.
Reality TV Shows
Reality TV thrives on drama, but not everyone is a fan. Still, the desire to keep up with the latest buzz leads people to pretend they’re as engrossed as everyone else. The Kardashian/Jenner clan members are really not that interesting.
Non-Fiction Literature
Not everyone’s into non-fiction, but reading those books can make people feel smart and informed. So, they put on an intellectual front, even if they’d prefer a good story.
Expensive Wine Tasting
Wine tasting can be perplexing, especially when the flavors are hard to distinguish. Despite this, people often sip and nod knowingly, masking their uncertainty behind a veneer of sophistication. One bachelorette party went to a winery, and the person serving them said they would no longer serve them because they weren’t “experiencing” the wine correctly.
Volunteering Obligations
Helping out is great, but not all volunteer work aligns with personal interests. Still, the desire to look caring and engaged leads many to put on a charitable front. It’s amazing if you love to volunteer, but many just do not.
High-Intensity Workouts
Ugh, the sweat is everywhere! Intense workouts aren’t everyone’s cup of protein shake, but the drive to stay fit often outweighs the discomfort. People grin and sweat, pretending to love the challenge.
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