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Manifesting someone into your life isn’t as crazy as it sounds. We’ve all been there; we wished someone special would call or text us. We hoped we’d find our soul mate. Perhaps you lost touch with a family member and long for a reunion. Manifesting someone you love is quite a normal manifesting goal.
In this post, we’re going to cover everything about manifesting someone into your life. This could be a specific personality or a general type of person, like if you want to manifest your true love.
We’re also going to focus on the frequency of love and how it is one of the highest vibrations you can be in, which allows you to attract more love into your life.
You’re going to learn how to put yourself into a vibrational match for receiving love and sending love outwards to the people around you.
The Frequency of Love
The frequency of love is one of the highest frequencies to be in when you’re trying to manifest something. The universe has a vast myriad of frequencies, but to manifest someone you love, you need to be in a frequency of love.
Different feelings send indicators and energy out to the universe. Love, peace, enlightenment, and joy are the highest and most potent.
Feeling love makes you feel positive and places you in a frequency that readies you to accept love into your life. You can do many things to help you remain in the frequency of love as long and as often as possible so that you can manifest love.
Rose quartz is the crystal of love. It is used to open your heart chakra and balance your emotions. Rose quartz is perfect for promoting love, happiness, and compassion. It’s a great stone to add to your daily manifesting routine.
Hold rose quartz whenever you need to relax and refocus on manifesting love. By having your heart chakra balanced, you will feel aligned and be at a high frequency that will allow love to find you.
Rose quartz is excellent to have around while you’re sleeping and to do your manifesting work, like meditation or writing out affirmations.
Eliminate Limiting Beliefs
To manifest someone, you have to believe it can happen. Manifesting relies on positive energy and positive thoughts. Negative energy and negative beliefs will prevent you from reaching your goal.
A great way to eliminate limiting beliefs is to think about all the things you question about manifesting love or why you think it won’t happen.
It could be something like you saying to yourself that you’ll never find love or you think you’re not worthy of love. It could also be things like. You’re too busy at work to date. All of these are examples of limiting beliefs, and what you need to do is debunk them.
Let’s use the “you’re too busy to find love.” belief. Do busy people still find love? Yes. Do people sometimes find love at work or on their way to work? Yes. Do some people find love quickly and easily? yes; therefore, you have now debunked your limiting belief.
The limiting beliefs in your head are not valid, and you’ve just debunked them.
Go through any negative thoughts you might have around manifesting someone you love and debunk them, so you’re free from limiting beliefs and ready to manifest.
5 Simple Steps to Manifest Someone into Your Life
Use the Law of Attraction
The law of attraction is the idea that the frequency you emanate outwards into the universe circles back around to you. If you are happy, loving, and caring, those frequencies will return to you in time. If you love others, you will, in turn, receive their love.
Keep the law of attraction in mind each day so it will help you manifest love and open you up to receive love.
Writing can help you materialize your manifestation on paper and leverage the law of attraction.
Write out what you want to manifest every day. This will increase your focus and kindle a comforting glow inside of you. As you write, you will notice you start to feel happier as you picture your future once your manifested desires have become a reality.
Then, write out that future in greater detail. Picture your life once your manifestation has come true. What do you see? Who is around you? How do you feel? What will you do?
Writing out these life details helps raise your frequency, which triggers the law of attraction.
Get Clear on What You Want
The first step in manifesting someone you love is to get as clear as you can on whom you want to manifest into your life. Envision yourself with your loved one living your ideal life together.
Getting clear on your manifesting goals doesn’t mean you need to know precisely what you want right now. First, get clear on how you want to feel. If you’re having trouble getting clear on what you want to manifest, ask yourself the following questions:
Why do you want to manifest someone you love?
What feelings do you want to feel once you’ve manifested love?
Practice visualization for a few minutes daily to stay on track toward your manifesting goals.
Use Positive Affirmations
Positive affirmations are the next step. What we tell ourselves is crucial in the manifesting process. What you say to yourself dictates how you feel and what you and your mind believe.
Reciting and writing down affirmations will trigger the law of attraction in your favor and help you manifest love. This is because our minds believe what we tell them. It doesn’t know the difference between a lie and a truth. If you continually tell yourself that you are worthy of love, that you are lovable, and that you will find love, your mind will believe it, and you will start to attract more love.
Be aware that the reverse happens if you tell yourself negative thoughts like “I’ll never find love” and “No one loves me.” Your mind will believe these statements, and you will attract more painful emotions and negative results.
Take great care with your thoughts. You are always manifesting whether you want to or not.
Meditation is an essential step in manifesting someone you love. It ties in with visualization. You want to be in the frequency of love as often as possible. Our feelings can be a helpful guide in telling us if we’re on the right path to manifesting what is meant for us. Let me explain.
Sometimes, if you sit with your eyes closed and think about a goal, you may feel pressure in your stomach and grow uneasy and nervous. If you get unsettling vibes while meditating, this might signify that the goal is not meant for you right now.
However, if you close your eyes and feel lightness, happiness, excitement, and peace, this is a sign that this goal is meant for you.
Meditation allows you to relax, block out the outside world and get in touch with your emotions and feelings. Meditating every day, even for a few minutes, helps you get in touch with your subconscious mind and touch with the source of energy, God, or the universe.
Trust the Process
You need to trust yourself and the process when manifesting someone you love. You must let go of the “how” and “when” and believe with all your heart that you will manifest love. The path you take to manifest love might change and look rather different than what you first thought, and that’s ok.
Although you cannot manipulate free will, don’t let that stop you from manifesting a best friend, a romantic relationship, or a particular person in your life. You don’t have to be super specific.
Manifesting love can happen in many different ways. Let go of your preconceptions of how you think love will happen and when it will come. Trust that it will arrive in its own way and in its own good time, and you’ll discover manifestation will bear fruit soon enough.
Your belief must be compelling and everpresent. Hold on to blind faith while you go through all the steps to manifest someone you love.
The best way to do this is by repeating affirmations and meditating as often as possible. Recite things like “I am worthy of love.” “I will find love.” “Love is on its way to me.”
More Powerful Tools to Help You Manifest Someone
Create Vision Boards
Vision boards are a feel-good way to align you with what you want to manifest. Vision boards remind you each day of what you want in life and why you do what you do. It’s easy to get distracted and down on life, so vision boards are an easy and fun way to keep your momentum.
You can create a vision board for your room or office or a digital vision board for your phone so that you can set it as your background and be constantly reminded of the life you’re going to live.
Grab some cardboard, print off some inspiring images and quotes, and glue them into a collage for a beautiful vision board/artwork for your room. Vision boards are a powerful tool in the manifestation process because they evoke positive emotions and a positive mindset.
Whenever you struggle with feeling anxious, stressed, or nervous, breathwork is a fantastic way to help calm your nervous system and help you relax. Deep breaths move you out of low-vibe energy and into a more positive energy vibration.
It’s so easy to let negative thoughts spiral. This leaves you in a very low vibrational frequency, making it hard to feel motivated again.
Anytime you feel upset or anxious, you can use your breath to help you calm down and refocus. It’s a quick way to stop your negative thoughts and help you get back on track.
Here’s a quick exercise for you to try.
Take a deep breath through your nose. Four seconds in, hold it for four, and release it out of your mouth for five.
Be sure you be mindful of your breath and release the breath out.
Try it again, but this time, as you release your breath, allow yourself to make some noise. As if you were sighing out loudly.
Repeat this until you feel calmer and centered again.
Once you feel calm, practice your gratuities and say or write out three things you’re grateful for right now.
Use a Manifestation Journal
If you don’t have a manifestation journal, you can create one using a blank notebook or sheets of paper. A manifestation journal is a tremendous high-vibe energy tool that can be an excellent tool for successful manifestation. There are many different manifestation techniques, and using a journal can help you with your manifestation process no matter what it looks like for you.
A manifestation journal like The Beautiful Mind 90 Day Journal is great because it puts you in high vibration and only takes a few minutes to fill out. Inside, you will find a daily page to write affirmations, things you’re grateful for, and your desires. You can use these to invoke positive thinking and add your manifesting goals to your desires section.
As a full-time working mom of three, I know what it’s like to feel like life is out of balance and out of control.
While I don’t have it all figured out, I am committed to sharing helpful tips and tricks with other mommas who are ready to break free from negativity, ditch mom guilt, & finally, live life on their own terms.