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15 Hazards of Trying Too Hard On Social Media

ByVictoria Cornell November 30, 2023November 30, 2023
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In the era of digital connectivity, our feeds are flooded with a constant stream of posts and updates, each competing for our attention. Amidst this content overload, there are unmistakable signs that scream “look at me.” From exaggerated selfies to mysterious status updates, we’ve all encountered attention-seeking tactics that elicit an eyebrow raise or an eye roll. Join us today as we delve into these behaviors and trends, inviting you to share your observations and experiences, and together, unravel the distinct signals of attention-seeking on social media.

Cryptic Updates

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One user said, “Posting quotes to your story about how you’re a private person, making moves in silence, showing your imaginary haters who’s boss.”

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A second user said, “A few years ago, a co-worker made a FB post along the lines of “They say God only gives you what you can handle. I just wish He didn’t have so much faith in me,” and then when people asked her what was wrong, she said she didn’t feel comfortable sharing.”

Self-Centered Selfies

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A most-liked comment was, “Constant selfies.”

Another funny comment was, “Acting like you don’t see the camera That you are holding to take the picture.”

Validation-Seeking Posts

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A Redditor said, “Making a post declaring that you’re leaving social media and not coming back”

Another Redditor said, “Conventionally attractive people who whine in the “am I ugly” posts knowing damn well they’re fine and just fishing for compliments ”

Attention-Grabbing Drama

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A popular comment was, “Posting yourself crying.”

A second popular comment was, “Checking in to a hospital and only replying “DM me” when they get asked what’s wrong. Or the other classic, a photo of one of their kids with an injury. Aye, that ankle looks broken. Better take a pic and post it before going for medical attention.”

Provocative Content

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A user replied, “Revealing photos with inspirational quotes.”

A second user added, “Coming as close to being banned for nudity/se****ual content as you can without being banned.”

Oversharing Personal Life

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One comment was, “Starting a family channel with your kids.”

Another comment said, “TMI overload! Some people just can’t resist spilling every intimate detail of their personal lives on social media. We get it, you love to share, but maybe some things are better left unsaid. Privacy, anyone?”

Fake Accounts For Attention

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A comment was, “Replying to your own post/comment and forgetting to change to one of your fake accounts.”

Another said, “Ah, the classic “catfish” move. Creating fake accounts or personas to gain attention and validation on social media is a surefire way to scream, “I want attention!” It’s all fun and games until the truth comes out. Be authentic, folks!”

Dancing

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One user said, “Doing a stupid f****king dance in the middle of a busy public place. And then having the shocked-Pikachu audacity to be upset when someone “ruins their shot.”

Clickbait And Exaggeration

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One funny comment was, “Adding “viral” word in the title or caption VIRAL FOOD!! VIRAL T-SHIRT!! VIRAL GAMING CHAIR! VIRAL ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION!!”

Mundane Activity Updates

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A funny Redditor replied, “I cannot stand DAILY selfies doing mundane sh****t but not showing mundane – just your face. Like my aunt is always posting selfies and being like, “The cafeteria is out of cookies,” and it’s just her and a sad face. DUDE. NO ONE CARES.”

PDA for Attention

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One user said, “Posting about how amazing your significant other is all the time, how they are your “ride or die” and how amazing your life is with them. Behind the photos is always a sham, unhappy, unhealthy relationship. The likes make them feel better about their sh****ty relationship that they show to the outside world.”

Staged Validation Photos

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A Redditor replied, “Fitness influencers posting “Body positivity” bul****it that is just two identical photos of them looking perfect and a title like “It’s all camera angles! Look how bloated I am after my delicious breakfast of a tablespoon of raw chia seeds drizzled with fat-free plain yogurt! I had to learn to love this body too!”

Constant Sympathy-Seeking

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One popular comment was, “When someone piggybacks off of a death or a tragedy to receive their own condolences. I see it often with people not even related to those who are really grieving the loss of a loved one . . . or even good friends.”

Shocking Content Sharing

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A user commented, “Posting really embarrassing or inappropriate pics of your kids. I’m a dad so this is especially high on my list, but sh****t shouldn’t fly if you’re out there sharing pics of your toddler in a bikini or posting vids of them getting hurt and thinking it’s funny”

Attention-Seeking Challenges

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One user said, “Pranks against strangers. F****k those guys.”

Another user said, “Giving money to poor people while recording it and posting it on social media with sad background music.”

Social media has provided a platform for various behaviors that scream, “I want attention.” From oversharing personal life details to creating fake accounts, some individuals resort to desperate measures to garner attention online. While seeking validation and recognition is a natural human desire, it’s important to remember the value of authenticity and genuine connections.

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