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On one of the funnier threads of Reddit, someone asked the men, “What do guys actually think about while they are cuddling a girl?”
And these are the top-voted responses. First and foremost, guys think, “Was that an intentional wiggle or just getting comfy.” Let’s see what else is going on in their heads.
1. Does She Breathe Like That
One man confessed, “Does she really breathe like that normally? I’ve never noticed. Tries to match breathing for a sustained time. (Gasps for air) Holy cow! How does she live like that?”
Another laughed, “Haha.. or try too hard to match her breathing and then get self-conscious about your breath and start wondering if I am breathing too deep or too shallow.” Finally, a third confirmed, “Then I start wondering if she knows what I’m doing.”
2. My Shoulder Is Starting To Hurt
“My shoulder is starting to hurt,” is the second-highest-voted response. One man added, “My arm is asleep,” before a third replied, “Her hair’s in my mouth.”
One man admitted, “It depends on the moment and said girl, but 50% of the time, I just shut down my brain and think about nothing to enjoy the feeling more.”
Several people were fascinated by this user’s ability to “shut his brain off.” But, in contrast, others knew exactly what this man was saying.
4. Loving Thoughts
One man confessed that he thinks these thoughts: “So soft. She has such a nice body. She should not be insecure about her belly. Her hair smells so nice. I love this woman so much.”
5. Secondary Thoughts
“I feel needed and wanted,” answered another. “I can pay our bills, fix our cars, reach things on high shelves, parent the kids, make something in our shop, etc., but it all becomes secondary to her wanting to jump into bed and spoon with me to get warm and fall asleep.”
6. Butterball Turkey
One man volunteered, “It’s like snuggling with a Butterball turkey. How can someone with so many layers be so cold?”
Another shared, “My wife sleeps beneath a weighted blanket AND a heated blanket. She’s got her own microclimate under there. It’s nice to visit, but then I must struggle back out and have a Gatorade or something.”
7. I’m the Happiest Person Alive Right Now
“I have a sweet memory of falling asleep cuddling her one of the first times we slept together,” another explained. “I woke up and saw her sleeping in my arms, and what went through my head was, “I can’t believe this is happening. I’m the happiest person alive right now.”
So I gave her an ever-so-gentle squeeze. She did not wake up, but she smiled in her sleep. That smile made me even happier.”
8. Tears of Joy
“One time I cried tears of joy because I loved that girl so much, and it was a perfect moment, thinking I wish this moment never ends,” confessed one. Another admitted, “Yeah, I’ve been close to tears once or twice. It’s just so nice.”
9. All of the Reasons I Like This Girl
Someone shared, “How comfortable I am. How content I feel. All of the reasons I like this girl. The places I want to take her, the things I want to do with her. How badly I hope the relationship lasts.”
10. A Sense of Calmness or Comfort
Finally, one man stated, “Hmm, a sense of calmness or comfort, but in certain positions, I don’t want to speak for all men, if we feel the heat in our area, we have this rush to initiate things even further.
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But, there is this strange sense of contentment which is why physical contact is so imperative in terms of affection. I’m one of those softies who need it and crave my woman’s touch because it is a calming agent that I wouldn’t experience.
Women are beautiful, and on a spiritual level, they will always have that power of nurture that men can never replicate or experience other than their polarity, the female energy. Sorry to go off the walls. I think it’s something beyond physical.”
What do you think? Are these Men of Reddit freaking adorable, or were you expecting something else from this list? This article is inspired by the internet and does not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of Motherhood Life Balance.
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