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10 Absolute Worst Things People Confessed To Hearing on Dates

ByVictoria Cornell December 1, 2023December 1, 2023
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Have you ever been completely floored by something your date said to you? You’ve got company. Someone recently asked the internet, “What’s the worst thing a person has said to you while on a date?” Here are some shocking responses.

1. I Want to Date Someone Like You but Not You

One person explained that they watched their date order a costly meal, including a $25 drink and a $50 meal, after explaining he would pay for the date. He explained he was alright with it until she said, “I want to date someone like you but not you. I was going to tell you earlier, but I was hungry.”

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As if that was horrendous enough, she made plans with another guy after the meal in front of him! So he did the logical thing and excused himself to the bathroom after they served the food but left her instead. “I don’t know how she paid for that because I ordered something equally expensive.”

2. My Boyfriend Would Love This Place!

Nothing says romance on a date like hearing, “Wow, my boyfriend would love this place!” Okay, that might be pushing it. Several people suggested it may have been an open relationship situation. Still, for that to work, all parties deserve the deets!

3. The Body Shamer

One Redditor confessed they had a date that stated, “I don’t mind that you’re… you know,” before waving their hand vaguely at her body. Others were shocked, while one volunteered, “I would have been like, ‘no, I don’t know. Please elaborate’ and watch the person struggle.”

4. Olive White

Another user explained that they had a terrible date recently where they mentioned they were Italian. To which his date responded, “Ok, good, so you’re olive white, not cream white.” What?

5. I’d Dahmer Someone

Okay, gross and scary one here for you. One Redditor shared that they had a date that asked them what the worst crime they were willing to commit was – if they could get away with it.

They confessed they were game to steal a few million dollars from a bank if they could get away with it. To which their date responded, “I’d Dahmer, someone.” Needless to say, there was no second date.

6. You’re Ugly, and Your Art Sucks

Ouch. Okay, this Redditor’s date is an absolute turd. He said, “You’re ugly, and your art sucks!” The original poster (OP) suggested, “Got me both from the outside and inside.” Another quoted Roy from The Office at Pam’s art show, “Your art is the prettiest art of all.”

7. Oh, By the Way, My Parents Don’t Like Mexicans

Yes, I’ll have the chicken, and he’ll have the casual racism, please! YUCK! This person explained going on a date and having a great time before pulling up for his birthday party at his parent’s home.

It was her first time meeting the family, and he prefaced it with, “Oh, by the way, my parents don’t like Mexicans.” Of course, she is Mexican, and it doesn’t matter. Who says something like that? As she stated, “What am I supposed to do with that information?”

8. God, You Are So Amazing. Such a Shame You Look Like That

One user explained that they had consumed a couple of glasses of wine before their date and said, “God, you are so amazing. Such a shame you look like that.”

He expressed laughing, paying the tab, wishing her a lovely night, and heading home. “I don’t think she was being mean, just saying what she felt without a filter.” She called and apologized, and they hung out as friends afterward.

9. What Was NOT Said

Another Redditor shared that his issue with the date wasn’t about anything she said but rather what she did not say. “Her face was buried in her phone screen the whole evening.” He elaborated that she was shocked when he told her they would not go out again.

10. I’m Not Going To Pay For Your Drinks Unless There’s Alcohol in Them.

One woman shared that on a first date, she ordered a mocktail, and he said, “I’m not going to pay for your drinks unless there’s alcohol in them.”

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Many people in the thread agreed that was disturbing before one suggested, “What a self-own. ‘I was trying to trick you into getting drunk and doing something you wouldn’t do sober, and you didn’t fall into my trap!’ -the lack of self-awareness is stunning.”

What do you think? Did these Redditors have terrible first dates, or have you had worst? This article is inspired by the internet and does not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of Motherhood Life Balance.

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