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10 Red Flags of Insecurity: What to Watch Out For

10 Red Flags of Insecurity: What to Watch Out For

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We all have insecurities. When does it become an issue, and what are some signs you might not even notice you have?

What screams insecurity, but most people don’t realize it? After polling the internet, these are the top-voted responses.

1. Checking This Thread to See if You Do Any of These Things

The number one voted response was ironic, “Looking through these comments to see if there’s anything you do that is listed here is a sign of insecurity.”

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If someone can tease you and make fun of you all day but whines the minute you return their energy to them, that is a red flag. Not being able to take a joke similar to the ones you’ve been throwing around shows that you lack respect and are too insecure.

2.  Can’t Take The Jokes You Dish

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3.  Ridiculing the Achievements of Others

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Someone explained, “I will never date someone who ridicules someone else’s achievements. They’re insecure if they can’t be happy for someone else.

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4. Lie So Hard They Believe It Too

Some people twist the story, change how it happened, and retell it so convincingly that they’ll believe their nonsense and never apologize. These people will drive you insane and gaslight you to no end in a relationship.

5. Never Compromise

“An equal partnership means that both parties are respected for their opinion, and everything is considered. They are not mature enough for a real relationship if they don’t have enough emotional regulation to compromise.”

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6. I Won’t Change Myself For You

Someone explained that if they ignore how you feel after you tell them and make no attempt to explain or help you feel better, that’s a red flag. Many men are immature emotionally and can’t fathom the thought that they are doing something wrong.

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