What do you do when you feel like someone is taking advantage of you? You love your routine and peace but feel like it’s too much and your partner is not putting in any effort?
The original poster (OP) explains that once he and his girlfriend moved in together, he discovered that she was “super lazy.” She wakes up at 12 p.m. and doesn’t go to bed until 3 a.m.
Another said, “Why are you acting like it’s your job to be with this person? If you’re unhappy, putting in 100% of the effort and getting nothing back, change your situation.”
“This is all 100% in your control. You’re not stuck with this person. You thankfully haven’t yet bought a house together, there’s no mention of kids. Leave! Do it now.