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https://motherhoodlifebalance.com/he-feels-like-his-girlfriend-is-using-him-as-a-maid/

https://motherhoodlifebalance.com/he-feels-like-his-girlfriend-is-using-him-as-a-maid/

Motherhood Life Balance

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What do you do when you feel like someone is taking advantage of you? You love your routine and peace but feel like it’s too much and your partner is not putting in any effort?

Here’s a story of a man who is experiencing this exact thing. What would you do? What should he do?

The Man, The Myth, The Maid

The original poster (OP) explains that once he and his girlfriend moved in together, he discovered that she was “super lazy.” She wakes up at 12 p.m. and doesn’t go to bed until 3 a.m.

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He says he’s the one who cleans the house once a week and that anytime he asks her for help, she says “later” and never gets around to it.

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OP said that his girlfriend forced him to block all of his female friends. All of his school friends think he’s ignoring them.

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The People Weigh In

“She shows signs of emotionally abusing you. You seem to care a lot about someone who doesn’t give a sh** about you and doesn’t respect you.

Another said, “Why are you acting like it’s your job to be with this person? If you’re unhappy, putting in 100% of the effort and getting nothing back, change your situation.”

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“This is all 100% in your control. You’re not stuck with this person. You thankfully haven’t yet bought a house together, there’s no mention of kids. Leave! Do it now.

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